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Albert Ellis: A gentleman as well
1913 - 2007 |
Albert Ellis, the founder of Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy and the
‘grandfather’ of Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, died on 24 July 2007. Aged 93 –
in itself a considerable achievement for a person who had suffered ill-health
for most of his life – in true Ellis style he continued to practise almost
till the day he died.
My
earliest contact with Albert Ellis was in 1991, when he graciously agreed to
provide an introduction to my first book. I use the word graciously on
purpose. Dr Ellis was regarded by many as a ‘stroppy’ individual, a directive
psychotherapist and a professional who spoke his mind without fear of
disapproval. What many people did not see was Albert Ellis the gentleman, who
communicated in his correspondence with an endearing old world courtesy. And
for the world's most famous psychotherapist to set aside time to assist an
unknown practitioner from a tiny country showed a significant generosity of
spirit.
Meeting Dr Ellis face-to-face in New York, when he supervised some of my
therapy work, there remains an unforgettable memory of the supervisor lying on
a recliner with his eyes closed. Just when it appeared that he had fallen
asleep, he sat up, turned off the tape recorder, and described in great detail
what he thought of the interview. At that time, he would have been almost 80,
yet his mind was as crisp as that of a young person.
When
a notable person dies, it is common to say that the world will be poorer for
his passing. This does not quite fit Albert Ellis. What he has given to
humanity will continue - and grow. Let’s say that the world is richer for his
having been here.
Wayne
Froggatt
New
Zealand Centres for
Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy &
Cognitive Behaviour Therapy
July
2007 |